Character Art Exchange

Success in Life - Do You Have What it Takes to Succeed?

On the other hand, if we do Power Quadrant System risk speaking up or out, we feel have to have to bolster and support what we say with everyone's else's facts and information. Have you ever listened to conversations around the water cooler, on the transit systems, in social gatherings, etc., and noticed how many folks make their point by simply repeating what they've read in the papers, or heard on the talk shows, and noticed the real dearth of new or novel ideas? Many of these folks would have nothing to say if they couldn't repeat someone else's ideas or notions.

So, mired in a state of insecurity, feeling small, invisible, irrelevant, and insignificant, we either go through life quietly, like "good little boys and girls" or we speak up but first have to feel sure we have all the(ir) "facts" straight. The underlying motivation is that I would not be someone if I couldn't support my own thoughts with someone's else's thoughts. That I can't stand alone. That I can't think for my self and if I did, I would be wrong.

It's important to remember, that in every interaction, in every relationship, we are always on a "parent-child" continuum, feeling as one or the other, depending on the dynamics of the relationship. So, I ask myself, "How old do I feel?" If I feel child-like, small, threatened, inadequate, "stupid, I know I'm giving my power, my aliveness, my juiciness, my vitality, my "self" over to someone else to control.

https://consumerscomment.com/power-quadrant-system-review/

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